How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Had strong anxiety, heart palpitations, headaches and fear randomly over twin flame presence, 20 mins later he didnt acknowledge me saw a photo of a girl on the back of his phone faced up. Assume it was a new gf. Was this a warning of seperation?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What I need from you?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why can't I lose weight?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has anyone ever had sex with their cousin? How did it start, and would you do it again?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

When was the first time you felt discriminated against because you were female?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why is it so hard to date nowadays?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.